Men are such freaking assholes sometimes. (And yes, women are complete bitches sometimes, too.)
At a bar for happy hour this evening (post yoga, but more on that in a minute) and this guy at the bar---maybe 25?--kept staring at my friend. Leering, rather. My friend is almost 60. A beautiful woman, but...still. Almost 60.
I crossed by him at one point to go to the ladies' room and he either said to me "Woof" or "Wolf." He was too drunk to really understand. And I don't think it was a compliment either way.
But then. Then my friend goes out for a smoke. Within a minute I see him get up and follow her outside.
Apparently the transaction went something like this:
Him: Can I have a drag off that?
Her: Take your hand off my ass.
Him: Geeze, sorry.
Her: I said, take your hand off my ass. This is not how you treat a woman.
Him: Come on. I gotta big dick.
She came back in and sat down after that.
And I wonder why the idea of being thin and small scares me sometimes. That right there is why. I don't know a single woman who hasn't had a man touch her in an unwanted way. This is on the tails of finding out a friend was raped last week.
Not that bigger women aren't sexually assaulted. I have been a few times. There's just...I dunno...the assumption that I'm more likely to hear "woof" from a guy like than "I gotta big dick." Which is just fine by me. His is not a favor I'm wanting to win.
Just. Really. The anger knows no end.
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An hour of yoga today. Did good stuff with my hips. Shook out some trauma during a leg raise.
Meant to get up and run. Didn't. Meeting Jessie for a walk in the morning.
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1 Fiber One blueberry muffin
1.5 cups of Fiber One with almond milk and dried fruit
2 Applegate Farms all natural chicken apple sausage links
Went to a diner for lunch...am not proud, but this is going to be my "one meal a week eaten out there I can have whatever." (Note to self, this can't happen again until NYC.)
1 chicken fried steak with white gravy
1/2 cup mashed potatoes
1/2 cup green beans
1 big fat white roll with butter
1 Fiber One blueberry muffin
1 house salad with Thousand Island dressing
3 cheese sticks and 1 flauta off the "free bar food tray" meaning, not big.
There is a sugar free baby strawberry pie in my kitchen waiting to be eaten later!
3 cups of coffee
lots of water
Good blog. Men are assholes.
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